It is a terrifying, paralysing sight. Sadly I know the best advice all sites say is to learn to accept they will never care about you and just have a cordial relationship. Motel 6 has a lot of locations, but I don't know how safe they are. The point about men not wanting to seem weak is so true. Falling in love with an abusive, personality disordered woman is like living a fairy tale in reverse.
Males are preoccupied with obtaining money at all cost, including stealing it from family members. Since she does not have the threat of deportation any more, she messes up the finances. It took me months to get over her. But I came across this so others will likely follow. But yes I like to get revenge.
Under fair control before her, boundaries have became a problem for this victim. To the second aspect of this criteria, some women do have excessively high standards, requiring themselves to have a full-time career ideally in an exiting field on a management track , while being full time moms, keeping themselves in shape, have a perfect house and so on. It is quite easy to overlook female narcissists and their even more ruthless cousins,. She even rang my father who is 75 and lives at the other side of the country and told him lies about me too. Oh, and while your waiting to post bail, she's emptied the house, taken your children, and has called your boss. I am getting in contact with a psychologit to see, hope to get help. The attacks became more frequent and nastier.
I always had premonitions to her betrayal. Everything in her life was new and she was letting me back in to see how happy she was going to be. Without doubt you will need time to recover, but in the meantime you are educating yourself about what really happened to you. She will say the latter directly to my face when I come over to comfort her after a fight with her boyfriend or her boss or her family. Is there any advice as to how to deal with this person and keep a healthy friendship? I used to feel why when both are working in good company, they too can go to lots of other places. The coroner asked if she wanted to go back and see him, and she said she did.
She apologised but later changed her mind. You may also need to look at your boundaries, and strengthen them. Once you realize your behavior might hurt others in the same way it is very easy to change, even overnight. Thank you so much for your comments. They are social predators because they can use their vagina as a weapon.
It turns her on when they chase after her. Granted, most narcissists learn how to suppress, disguise, even repress these untoward feelings. One thing , I want to say that she is very hard-working, intelligent, aggressive, highly competitive. All my other friends think she is so pretty and perfect and smart, but I know about her sad life because I am the one she talks to and tells how lonely she really is. She was so offended she turned everything we ever had off like a light switch.
An insatiable sense of competitiveness, due to pathological envy and the need to be the center of attention. You will spend money, do everything for her, be verbally put down. She kept increasing behavior that made me nervous and uncomfortable. Gosh, it would be another day in the United States with out a picture of some girl who obviously struggles for her own independence from a gang like mentality. My daughter is 14, lives with her and new husband. My friends suddenly stopped talking. Needless to say, I ended the friendship.
It was exhausting and makes you go bat shit crazy. Flirting is a fun thing for adults to do, but narcissists use flirting as a tool to get what they want. That is the cornerstone of a narcissistic personality. Me, a bit more suspecious than before. Its not over yet i want to write a book but need a ghost writer , that will shut her up because no one in her world knows about her because it all happened in another part of the country, So yes women can be narcs this ones the full russian doll.