Man of Velvet and Steel was written in 1972, and though it is primarily a guide for men, we thought we'd share our highlighted passages here, since it's a guide for Stepford women too, in how to behave around our men. He holds the right of decision, the final say in everything. When obedience has to be fought for it causes all types of inter-personal issues. It creates a foundation for your woman to learn additional skills and training commands. Whatever your husband chooses, just say Yes! Obedience is the action that puts these basic things into actual practice. When a man feels like he can have sex with his wife whenever he wants and he feels like she desires him and he pleases her that same man will often feel like he can go out and conquer the world! Add in larger male size the act of slipping it in even hurts. Sex can be painful at times with my husband.
As I said before, submitting yourself to your husband is far from easy. I want to dress in a manner that is pleasing and accessible to my husband at all times. They feel the man should come home at the end of the day to a nice home, a warm meal and a beautiful wife among their possessions. Where there is no vision, the people perish. I always made a point of making an example out of those that did not make me happy. Let him decide what you should have, or if he asks you what you would like, ask him then what he thinks may be a good dish.
When he finally decides he wants to hear what I have to say, he'll snap his fingers and I'll swallow, allowing the ability to speak. Is he not superior in strength and capacity to those he leads? He also believes in the declaration that women are meant to be seen, not heard. We thought, if we could serve and please our husbands by giving them unrestricted access to our bodies which we already do , how do we supersize the male sex right? General Rules For Effective Woman Training For Obedience You'll find proven training techniques for specific obedience commands by selecting from the list below. I think you understand it in a healthy manner, but I think it is controversial because it is easily misunderstood. We have our ears pierced once only! Now most women because of period issues or other medical issues will have to turn their husbands down from time to time and that is ok and husbands need to be understanding about this. Always leave the house with makeup, even if it is to go jogging.
You see these men were enjoying a good living not as good as the 1st group I described but better then industry average since they would not co-operate in the manner I desied I would basically turn into my father and make the consequences of their mistakes far worse then they needed to be. If you spend 40 hours a week at your job and then another 10 hours a week commuting you are going to have very little energy left to give to your husband, your children and your home. Jonadab, I see the logic behind those reforms. We feel that attempting to bring ourselves to climax is simply taking away from the focus of pampering our husbands to their climax. I do not claim to know the extent to which marital issues are caused by women rather than men, but I can definitely agree that from what I have personally witnessed including sexual problems in my own marriage that the majority are caused by the wives.
Believe in what you are doing and stick to it. This exercise also serves a double purpose: it trains us Stepford girls to respond to our husbands' snapping fingers. I know I have all my faculties intact…I just have a heart to be submitted, obedient, bound and in complete service to my husband…. She needs to be home where she can achieve the maximum femininity, hopefully in the presence of a masculine husband. She must go through official channels. They often think they have decided for sure, but then change their minds.
I made sure that they were treated as Gods among men. Such examples of this can be the goal or task of having a baby or getting married. If they did as they were told, were pleasant about it, were excellent in their job performance, where respectfully silent when they received an ass chewing and perfomed whatever favor I needed when I needed it. I do that all the time with my unbelieving friends. Warning this may not be aligned to your current rule book and thus may cause offence to the prudish. Women must return to their homes and serve their men. Or does that not work that way? I'm glad you're here, whether you wanted to be or not! Us girls sometimes make a mistake and say If you think that's best, or whatever you think is best.
Yet to accomplish her goals, she is dependent upon him - upon his decisions, his wisdom and judgment. Dragonfly, it seems like anytime a woman tries to show a man any kind of sin is something that you disagree with. It is just insane the entitlement and self-centeredness that is seen by women today. Some women actually get a sick thrill out of making their husbands never really know if they will say yes or no to them. Honestly, use the exact same logic you mentioned with men when it comes to marriage.
After divorcing I stayed single for almost 10 years. It is all about what could be, not what is. On the outside I gave him what he wanted. No right to ask for pleasure, no right to refuse, and no right to say no. I learned very early that men can be very cruel. Is it okay to go out and buy toys? No offense ladies, but the similarities of what women and dogs respond to are surprising. But in life we are often called to do things we do not feel like doing.