. This is a woman saying 'see me naked. When we're going down on you, we don't have to worry about that ever. It's like a nice little halftime show. We can still touch your boobs. Your vagina basically becomes one of those 4-D movie experiences at Disney. We don't have to focus on not coming too early.
Here are his words: As a man, there are few things better than lying at the bottom of a bed, with a gorgeous woman above you, her legs spread wide open for you to go down on her. It was like her body was telling me 'You can go there, but you always have to be aware that you are going someplace vulnerable, and I have to protect myself. And since cunnilingus isn't a usual 'hook-up' activity, going down on a woman is so exhilarating. Sure, you kiss when you're having sex, but, while kisses are intimate, they can also just be lip service. Without oral, this lesser-species would peak in 10 seconds and our sessions would be over before they even started.
My darlings, we've wondered about , but why not go straight to the source? Plus, we're usually moving around too much during sex for it to be practical. Let's disprove the myth that men are selfish in bed and talk about the holy grail of prolonging their experience in bed. And yet, sexual intercourse is genital-on-genital. We don't get to appreciate you the same way when our head is nuzzled in your neck during missionary. My brain neurons light up like a Vegas casino with just the thought, the privilege, of being down there. The combination of lights, sounds, smells, and tastes really does it for us.
And that favor is also oral sex. Basically, foreplay should just be like a sexy Simon Says, where after one person does something, the other person should do that too until one of you screws up and is out, or you both come. Her thighs would squeeze my temples. It's incredibly sexy and welcoming. It gives us a chance to recharge between foreplay and sex. Sure, two orgasms is better than one, but we're not having more than one so it's not as if things are really unfair. I used to date this girl, and when I went down on her, her legs would close around my head like a vise.
Did his description surprise you? Plus, when you start writhing around and moaning, it's even hotter. Going down on you is great because we know by the time we're ready for penis-in-vagina, things will slide right in. Honestly, sometimes it's tough not to start orgasming and flopping all over you like a sweaty fish when we get really close during sex. Here, a 29-year-old guy in Manhattan reveals exactly what it feels like to head south. Not so with going down on a woman.
Save this article for later by pinning the image below, and follow Cosmopolitan. If we get you to orgasm now, we're not going to feel so bad if we can't during sex. Let us know in a comment below! Oral gives us that perfect stability quality boob-holding requires. I feel like I can really get to 'know' a woman by going down on her. Which is a great favor to have in our back pocket. We're like Zeus up on Olympus, except instead of chucking lightning bolts at heathens, we're throwing orgasms straight at your vagina.
Do you like when guys go down on you, or do you prefer having sex? It's one less-familiar organ linking up with another. What do you think about these reasons? But this is one of the few times we can do it without it feeling unnatural or awkward. The human connection to the mouth is so vital and intense. You just look crazy-hot and we like watching you. We can touch your boobs in lots of positions. From the view to achieving next-level physical and mental intimacy, men want you to ride their face like it's going out of style.
Our lives revolve around our mouths--talking, eating, singing, drinking. It's a pretty unique perspective on its own. Dear readers, what do you think? It gets you all ready for sex, which means no awkward probing until things fit together. If we're worried about, uh, ending things early, this can be a nice way to calm our penis down without just asking if we can sit around for a bit or pretending to go to the bathroom for 15 minutes. The only oral report men like to give is when they go down on you, and here are the reasons why. When I can have my mouth and nose in that special place, that is always a huge experience.