I can check most of my masculine energy at the door, and let him be the stronger of us. There are some meetings I can go into and run the show, and others where I have to be subordinate. He never felt threatened by my tax bracket or the property I owned. If you are trying to figure out why don't guys like me? They are, however, completely turned off by a ball buster. No girl could ever be good enough for them and they have yet to find a woman who will ever love them like their mommy does. I agree with your entire statement. Mis-match on this front seems to be the real problem.
I write things that are, to say the least, provocative…and yet I always get surprised when I receive angry emails from readers. Maybe you could step outside yourself, then take a long hard look at yourself, and him, then maybe see where he is actually better at something, anything, and then focus on that, and find a way to genuinely respect him as a result. Because the world today requires it and always has. Maybe I'm nostalgic for a time that never was, but what ever happened to romantic gestures and bold moves? In fact, I suspect its more a problem with the female communication style in general than with relative degrees of gender-specific success. Having the ability to think deeply about subject matters does not equate to arguments. When I was a little girl, I certainly fantasized about slaying my fair share of dragons. The true answer to this dilemma is to do what Evan stated in the article.
And you want to denigrate both the men and women because you take pride in your intelligence and ambition. Sociological data shows women, of all stripes, not just traditional types, but feminist leaning house husband positive go getter females eventually become dissatisfied and leave their mates. When a woman refuses to submit to a man, they go against their nature and are stuck trying to change the nature of men impossible or settling for a man with a feminine personality unappealing. I know married men and long time male friends that are great guys. Id totally lost sight of why we were together in the first place. I'm so glad you explained a bit more. For the moment, you can debate your head off with the rest of the sterile crowd following this cult of yours.
Waves give so much volume and poof, but it signifies how much of a free spirit I want to embody. Who is to say which life is really better? Women are attracted to men whom do not submit, as submission is a feminine trait and they want a masculine alpha man. Am I intimidating or is there something wrong with me and why? But when did men begin to think of themselves this way? Plenty of high powered men that have an air of self-entitlement. With men, the minute one girl breaks their hearts, they are tainted forever. By these 2 example i just want to prove to you that men do not avoid successful women instead they want one.
Because most of what you say is true, except that masculine energy females still ultimately end up leaving their male partners by and large and become dissatisfied. It could be said that they are getting exactly what they wanted; independance, careers, etc and these are the by-products of that movement. I do t see how anyone on Quora is remotely qualified to providing you with a plausible answer without knowing who you are and having spending time around you and your sociare economic circles. Anything about my physical appearance, actually. The evidence strongly points to what men know instinctively, career driven females make for terrible mates on aggregate there are always exceptions.
Perhaps you do give off signals as well; but on the other end of the spectrum men may be afraid to approach you, because they fear rejection. Confidence and arrogance can be confused, but once you are confident about who you are, the others may see the same thing. Letting a man lead my life in prior cases lead me into an abusive relationship marriage from which i taught myself very unhealthy coping to survive. Gold diggers come in both sexes. When I am committed to them and act nice and devoted, they start to look elsewhere. They must bring something to table for you to want relationships with them. If he had trouble finding a woman, would you suggest that he change, or would you tell him to just stay the same, and expect women to accept him as he is? I know many women in this situation and they are in real financial peril.
After I broke up with the man in my story, I had about two other boyfriends before meeting the one I married. She masks the losing weight reason with my health. Him being him makes you want to be you. Men have them too, but often a little different. Yes he did without agreeing with me. And no one is more or less deserving of love based on money or success. It wasnt my high income or forwardness that led to problems.
Here are some of the reasons why you might be having trouble getting a date. I feel like most men are acting on assumptions. Do you lack the kind of looks that attract men? Porn It's the common case of over indulgence. You can't change your looks, but you can change how you act around men. It meant I had the choice of activity.
So while I agree that strong women sometimes need to turn the leadership off, that alone seems like half the solution. Yet, a woman can instantly see that when she is Head of the Household, then her success is also his. I just creeped into 6 figures at my last merit review. The second study required participants to engage with either a responsive or unresponsive person of the opposite sex, then interact with them online while detailing a current problem in their life. What ever happened to a guy going after a girl until she agreed to give him a chance? And the other one I left in charge of booking tickets and hotel away for the weekend, he let the time pass and the prices went up and we ended up ging anywhere? Women clearly are looking to be appreciated, accepted, and admired as well. Do the best you can to change yourself into being a feminine woman. Nice gets you walked on and bitch gets you alone, but no drama.