But i spoke to him on the phone 1 week ago, in which I cried and told him how i felt and that I wanted to be with him and could make it work. Every time we spoke, she would tell me she missed me, loved me and that how lucky she was to have me. I found out he was telling one of my friends that e loves her too. Seriously everything went so smoothly, he was caring, and kind, and super sweet, and always went out of his way to show me that. I suggested that we split up and start seeing other people.
After some weeks try to contact him, just to see how he is going. All I know is that I want my ex to see me happy! I tried dating with new people to make him jealous and even I tried no contact but nothing works for me. He liked you from the beginning because you were happy and were out there living your life and doing you. As hard as it may be, you must work on making them miss you. While his confidence grew mine started to become smaller. Love is an unspoken language that heart understands regardless of caste, race, and religion. But look for a radical change in the way they treat you.
I called him another 3 days later asking if we could talk during the week, he apprehensively said yes. I am very close with his family and vice versa I even work with his sister! A disingenuous apology is worse than no apology. Love them as genuinely as you can as very few people know the meaning of true love and you are one of those blessed souls to love someone even if they don't love you back. Needless to say it was interesting when his brother told me the guy was so pissed he set the carpet on fire, I told him the truth and we got back together. We stayed in touch through txt the whole time and then I decided to go see him.
Then I put two and two together. Im 43 years old never married because I never thought i had met the right man until he came along. My question is why would anybody want to have their ex back inspite of the breakup. This time i went way to far though after being rejected by him the last time I lied to him by telling him he was a terrible boyfriend and even worse in bed complete lied ,he rocked my world I just wanted to hit below the belt and make him feel how I was feeling. I reaches out to him and although he mentioned he misses me he still said he needs to be alone.
But never be pushy or demanding. A robot lady with no soul will do just fine. We spoke for one hour in a public place garden and after the discussion was over he said i would like to chat with you. Alright, there is a lot of debate about this step. They are not objects like a stone or purse or car. So far no contact for about to be a month.
Also in a way you are complimenting him. Better to start a new relationship then to try and repair and waste time on the troublesome old one. I am 37yrs old and few yrs back i had registered myself on a matrimonial website. But I had invested too much in this person, and deep down, I knew that he really did love and care for me. Consider whether these same difficulties are likely to cause more relationship problems if you try to get back together, or if you might be able to get past them.
Part 2 — What To Do During The No Contact Period Just a heads up as this is an extremely important section. We had our entire lives together planned out from the wedding to traveling to kids. He absolutely adored me and treated me like a queen. It seems like we are broken up for good. Don't take a breakup personally.
I told him that he has things to work on too. It feels like not being able to breathe when a good man leaves you. I know I pushed him away and I really want to fix the situation. If they still carry a flame for you, they won't be in a hurry to have their things back and may even leave something important behind so they have to come and retrieve it. I met my Soulmate 6 months ago, but we got together 2 months ago… He lives in London and I live in Germany, so it was a long distance relationship….
I have been working out, took a 10day holiday with family out of town and am focusing on work and my daughter. But you know, girl can get jealous with that stuff. He says he is fed up and he gave me so much chances and I kept doing the same thing over and over. Accept why the relationship e nded. He spends time with other people and not me. Last month we finally made it work and he had met my friends and we talked about moving into together.
And after that again in 5th month i brought this love topic and he said not looking for anything serious. But now, he is starting to date someone else who is more similar to him. So what I want you to do is start writing down your vision of the future and what you want. If some says that they want to be friends means that they are being polite with you, but being friends with your 'ex' really depends on what kind of person you are. Avoid The Temptation To Text and Call Him I am going to warn you now.