Rape Supporters I have heard some bad feminists argue for rape on the basis that rape is not the worst thing that can happen to a woman or that men who are against rape are just paternalistic sexist men who are more concerned at the woman losing her purity than caring about a crime being committed. One geek specific red flag is that I'd like to see, from her profile, that she is a functional geek. With other guys, it's fairly straight forward but I know quite a few self-professed 'dorks' that I would go out to dinner with if only they'd ask. They always challenge you to become smarter, and they genuinely want to see you achieve your dreams. Some cultures in Nepal, China, the Wodaabe, the Seychelles, the Eskimo are examples. I argue it is sick to see bullies as sexy and manly for being evil. They have their life in order.
You sound bright, self-aware, and personable. So even though humans as a species are incredibly K selected, that some humans are more K selected than others. Many of the geek girl profiles I read are try-hards with very little else to offer. Be sweet by complimenting her or writing her a nice note. But some people who support such evil acts of abuse claim they are feminist and use some sophisticated, manipulative sophistry to argue that supporting bullying, rape, wife beating, child abuse and violence against woman or men is feminist.
There have been numerous threads on what girls like in guys, but now I'm asking the opposite question; what do smart guys like yourselves like in girls? It is literally the only system in existence that answers every single online dating question you have, including how to deal with rejection, self-esteem, profiles, emails and everything in between. Some cultures in Nepal, China, the Wodaabe, the Seychelles, the Eskimo are examples. This is a great way to impress a girl, and you may be surprised by what you learn. Many people need their abuser to be punished to get closure. Quirks Quirks are in abundance with nerds and their subtle rebelliousness to the mainstream makes them so super lovable in my humble heart.
Today's nerdy guys usually don't look like the stereotypical nerd, like the brother in Napoleon Dynamite or Steve Urkle. So even though humans as a species are incredibly K selected, that some humans are more K selected than others. The black woman who goes for this type of guy still cares about physical attraction, but is willing to look beyond slight missteps in style, to see what's on the inside. Attend a rodeo, go to a pop concert, see an action film, or tailgate before a sports game. I think there are good feminists and bad feminists.
I dated a guy who looked incredibly dorky in his golf outfits, but I still loved seeing him get ready for golf. Either they read superhero comics, or they like indie graphic novels, or generally read only manga. Anyhow, my experience with these guys has been the same as yours. So give me book smarts, and a reasonable amount of street-smarts. Not all your interactions would be with your Star Trek fan club. However, a lot of them are incredibly cute and endearing but very shy and give off mixed signals. I feel secure, cherished, and happy every day.
I have never been an everyman. If they message me, I'll respond in kind and let them know I'd only be interested in friendship, but it wouldn't go beyond that. This one really disqualifies most girls but I can't deal with the religious propaganda anymore. I think such people should not be allowed on rape juries. If you have never dated a nerd, consider the following 9 reasons you might just need a geek in your life.
He had been a math major and was a nerd, some girls in the class were obviously smitten. It's no Detective Conan for sure in terms of popularity. Nerdy women like nerdy men, and there are nerdy women. Online or in person, the hot looks are just like any other advertising-a come on that may not deliver the inner beauty that makes a person shine for a lifetime. Try putting some hooks for those conversations into your profile and in your initial emails. There are bad feminists who argue that victims of child abuse are only hurting themselves by complaining. I do know that what could help women like Amy is to find the guys who are doing bad things to her and stop those guys from doing that.
I could point out plenty of evidence, statistical and anecdotal, that this is not in fact the case, as commenters in that thread in fact do -- but what would be the point? The people who never were in relationships learned by being with each other. Then I was told by such woman that I was warped for saying so. Don't just list the shows you watch or universes you love to get lost in, Is your typical Friday playing board games with your friends, or doing awesome online raids on your favorite game? And if you don't, he still wants to know you. And an email may lead to a phone call, which they may not be able to handle at all. Talking to people outside your normal group of friends will help you meet girls.