There are many ways, the key is watching her reactions to what you are going. Fingering for some girls is more innocent process but with the same pleasure. If she doesn't like it you'll probably be able to tell. For example, questions like 'Is that good? Start kissing her down her neck-this is called necking- and slide your hand down her stomach and stick just the tips of your fingers under her , leave them their for a few seconds so that you wont surprise her and have her freak out. The best sex engages the body and mind fully.
It will get you both used to contact with each other. While we can't give you a list of surefire ways to get your partner off, we can give you a few suggestions based on our learnings from. Let her know that you are there for her -- to pleasure her and to make her feel good. You really shouldn't be nervous to do this- it'll make her realize you really care. Just keep up the rhythm and touch that's working for your partner, and check in with them to see what they need. Place your hand on the small of her back for a few seconds, not just to lead her through a door. Anal fingering can arouse the receiver, allowing them to relax their anus and prepare them for the insertion of a or any other sexual instrument.
But don't ask it matter of factly. I've found this to be true with a lot of women because we're all so damn different. Medical professionals suggest washing the hands before contact with the vagina, to ensure proper hygiene, especially when moving between different orifices. Once this is done slowly slide your hand under her underware, removing pants as needed, and do the cunt rubbing thing again, stay away from the middle. Pay attention to her breathing as you are doing this, as you may want to speed up or slow down depending on how she is responding. The way they are responding is so hot that we change something up, alter our rhythm in the hope of making them feel even better. Ask her to guide your head as you are giving her oral sex so that you know the exact position that feels the best.
Use the minimum amount of pressure needed to slide the skin freely along the tendon. Does she have a different ring, a new haircut or a different nail color? If there are cuts, infections, or open wounds on the fingers, extreme protection and care is necessary. She is going to know her body the best, and you can know the exact location of where your tongue or fingers should be next. A bonus move that works really well: Ask her to masturbate if she feels comfortable while you are kissing or licking her, as you can watch her do this and pay attention to where her fingers are going. Finally, I want you to think hard about the assumptions you probably have in your head about fingering. Make sure your nails are clipped, or you might hurt her.
You could also let them know just how hot their pleasure and arousal is making you. There are plenty of sporting opportunities for this closeness to be imposed on both of you! That's what it should feel like when you are sliding the clitoral hood along the clitoral shaft. This is more likely to be appropriate if she's dressed nicely or wearing heels. For example, riding tandem on a motorcycle, sitting on an inner tube or sled going down a snow hill, parachute jumping in tandem, etc. If you want to learn to please a woman -- and please her well over and over again -- then you have to practice. The sensation will be so light and teasing, it'll build your partner's anticipation.
A girl might be all about cuddling with you and think she's just being friendly, while you feel like you're getting mixed signals. Still others may find it challenging to have an orgasm because anatomically, their clitoris is too far away from their vagina. A hand cupped over her vulva like this and rubbed up and down with medium pressure is quite capable of getting most girls all the way to an orgasm, particularly if you vary the speed and pressure according to her responses. Try to look deep into her eyes and slowly get closer. Also remember to still kiss her while your doing this, take breaks if you need, maybe play with her boobs as well. Slide your finger in and out slowly and then see how she reacts. Don't jump to the punch line, or start at the end of the story.
Look for opportunities to break the touch barrier in a chivalrous way when you are together. When you do this then rub around her clitoris not on it as it maye hurt when directly touched, after stimulating the area for a little bit then you may touch the clitoris on and off so as to tease her but pleasure her at the same time. Continue massaging the area around the clitoris as you are flicking it until she reaches orgasm and screams or sighs in delight. Not only is each woman different, but they like different stimulation at different times. You know that a is going to be solid when it has been designed by a board-certified sexologist. I will say this though, what you wrote has worked on others in the past.
In other words, my early fingering experiences were not good. About 20% have coital climaxes. Don't actually bang her with your fingers. Get it on your finger, and paint it onto the rest of the lips and clit. However, these kinds of remarks are high-risk and can get you in hot water among people who are sensitive.