Essentially, there's no stopping cuffing season, folks. Single people can be considered romantic too. Go to the gym, buy some healthy food at the grocery store, or start a productive hobby. So snuggle up on your couch and hang out with us—and remember, if Harry Potter could survive both Voldemort and his innumerable, you can certainly get through Valentine's Day. What about the ones hopelessly devoted to their quest for love, but also hopelessly tired of participating in what it takes to date? But you know that this is just a shitty phase of your life.
The thought of having to share a bed with someone longer than three hours gives you anxiety. You could cook dinner, but why? Who said a significant other has to be the one to buy you an expensive dinner and take you out? Yes, there are perks to being in a relationship, ; but there are a ton of perks to being single too. Be independent and enjoy yourself. Look at this love letter as something similar. So you order some more sex toys and repeat this cycle until you either eventually cave and have an amazing night of fun, or until the right guy finally makes his appearance. Unless all your friends are in a relationship, hangout with me or continue reading. He would get an add, due to the hopes of striking up some form of relationship from thin Internet air.
You literally do whatever you want, when you want. Any random acquaintance is now a romantic possibility. You romanticize friends you never saw that way before. Share Tweet Copy Link Copied Being single and focusing on yourself is very important in order to discover who you truly are and to learn what exactly you want in life in general and in a partner. Share some love and happiness with other people who may be struggling even more than you today. Who wants to deal with that mess? Buy yourself a just because I felt like it gift. We are the unfortunate souls who are torn smack dab in the middle of two extremes.
Take a holiday, sit at the beach and just reflect on your life. Look, I get it: Time got away from you. If spending that extra 15 minutes in the shower is like spending 12 hours in the Sahara Desert without any water then you've become wayyyyyy too comfortable with being single. Have you ever seen a pup try to figure out? Because you are so desperate to get some, you are weirdly drawn to quirks and strange qualities that you would normally pass over. Sorry to be the one to break it to you, but you just are.
All this is plenty to keep us happy and perfectly content until the Gods of fate step in and help our over it selves stumble into love. Whatever you do, get off social media. So a cute couple came and told me that I was sitting in their spot. Or you sleep basically on top of him while he struggles to breathe through your hair on his face. Your own personal history tells you these nights out will lead to nothing but a waste of time and, potentially, a huge creeper. Shaving your legs 4 times a year doesn't make you the best candidate for a partner.
By the time you wake up, V-Day will be over so will your single blues and your well-rested body will thank you for the energy boost. These are important things to know. And if it was a sport, you'd be a damn olympian. And, when you're single, looking, and not finding anyone you're clicking with, it can be extremely frustrating. But besides that, it was a fun time going out by myself.
You start to realize how wrong the idea is and how potentially messy it could be. Whoever came up with this idea certainly could not have been single for a long period of time. Meet up with them after dinner and just talk. He reads your love letter to him in the newspaper? You will feel like you have someone laying next to you every night. Fuck that, if you want to have breakfast for dinner, you have it. Dating has become pointless because you have come to realize that only the rejects are left. Write down all the reasons you love yourself and what exactly you about you makes you feel that way.
If you're perfectly content being single this cuffing season, more power to you. You will definitely feel the love in the air. Try to stay away from the romance genre obviously. You talk about random guys way too much. That doesn't mean you're required to lock down a bae immediately — but it does mean you'll have to accept the fact that your social media feeds will be chock full of posts with the hashtags couplegoals, hesmine, and instalove.