Somehow for me, guys in sneakers is a big plus. Today, this is far from the truth, so guys who do have this quality stand out. Thought I would write it in the form of a letter female perspective : Dear future Significant Other, Hi, nice to meet you! But I love your posts and I love how real you are. What has mattered most of all, though, was the key item on my list: My now-husband understood how important honest communication is to building a great life with another person. If he is prideful, all the problems will be your fault.
I myself do not reflect a perfect image of this post, but my daily prayer is that God will continue to mold me into the man my wife deserves. I mean until and unless you are at some beach , why would you want to step out in slippers, even if you have gorgeous feet. You want a man secure in his own skin. It is difficult to overestimate the damage caused when we lose our temper. The reason being, in the last 4. You might not think that you deserve this type of guy, but you do.
He should under no circumstances live with his parents. Love is easy in the romantic beginning stages, but a Christian boyfriend should be the kind of man whose behavior and intentions will be loving in all kinds of circumstances 1 John 3:18. And while they absolutely need love to survive, they need hatred just as much. Being does wonders for creating attraction, especially if you already possess some of the other traits in this list. Positive people are usually quite different from negative people, and they tend to smile and laugh more. A godly man needs to be generous with his time as well as with his praise and encouragement. If a guy doesn't have everything you want, don't even think about dating him.
There is something interestingly attractive about geeks. Does those pair of bad boys meet the requirements of the occasion? For instance, not only is it a plus if you are handsome but if you are clean cut and smell nice as well. I get attracted by someone's presence of mind. Especially , her answer is so on point. He is willing to work hard to provide.
Sometimes, humility is incorrectly viewed as a mind-set of weakness and self-loathing. In addition to all this, if a man has a good sense of humor and a steady, cheerful disposition, this is wonderfully encouraging for his wife. A Christian boyfriend should begin to exhibit this kind of care and love for his girlfriend long before marriage. Also, a mature man is able to carry himself in a respectable manner in a public setting and understands his adult role. We all need to forgive ourselves for bungling our way toward true love. And chances are, your man will be there when a meltdown takes place. Life is hard, and marriage is hard, too.
And lastly, that he cherishes who he is with and is willing to protect her, once again, even in the small things. I believe a romance should blossom naturally so as not to be confused with initial infatuation. If a guy has nice teeth and clean nails, his hygiene is usually on point, and if he has nice shoes or big feet well then ladies you know…. Selfless: The Bible speaks specifically to husbands when it tells them to love their wives as they love their own bodies, just like Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her Ephesians 5:25-28. But it can take a lot of trial and error to figure out the most obvious things.
Instead of questioning my selection criteria though, I just assumed there was something wrong with me. Well, guys know deep down that service is one our most innate positive qualities. A good scent is not only helpful to those who take bath once a week but is also helpful in creating a good first impression. Keep in mind that the top 3 things women check out the moment they lay eyes on you is your teeth, nails and shoes. Our relationship should be based on mutual respect, understanding, and honesty. He recognizes when to be your rock. Movie stars, sideline reporters, news anchors— mostly blonde, skinny women.
I think that is what happened with me, on paper the guy looked perfect and in God did not want me to be with him. Try to explore above 2 links and first implement this practice on guys near you. We distilled these desirable traits down to 10 core qualities that women repeatedly rated as the primary things they look for in a man. Better communications result into better understanding. American women, by and large, are obsessed with height. Other than the fact that it gets our reproductive organs turning, you want a guy who will be able to say no.
Putting It All Together Are these 12 characters traits an exhaust list? Does he listen to others and yield to wisdom? Think of it like this, when his phone goes off, you want to be able not to anxiously peer over the screen to see who it is. Why did you pick the wrong partner? Well okay, I haven't met you yet, but I'm looking forward to meeting you. Instead, he wants to honor you and make you to feel special. Say it with me fellas, fully communicate. This is a guy that will be ever-determined in his efforts to grow himself and his relationships.
A guy can either pledge his undying love to me or hit the road. Because there is no reason for her that act which even she doesn't know! He is an asset, not a liability. But generosity is far more than just money and possessions. You want someone who will admit that he is not always right, and be willing to change when others point that out to him. Because of this, a cheerful, encouraging spouse is a real blessing Proverbs 16:24; 17:22; 15:30. Women need to look for someone who is willing to showcase love no matter the circumstance. A man with self-confidence will not be deterred from what he believes to be true and will not be easily pressured into doing things that he does not believe in.